Everyone Is Right, And That’s Exactly the Problem

Collage featuring Badshah, Bollywood romantic scene, “Vomit on Paper” album artwork, and a news headline about a Bollywood-influenced stalking case, representing cultural impact and controversy in Indian music

Every few months, Indian music (especially Indian hip-hop) finds itself at the centre of a controversy. A song drops, a moment goes viral, and before you know it, the conversation moves far beyond the music itself.

The recent backlash around Badshah’s track Tateeree is a reminder of how quickly things escalate today. What started as a song release quickly turned into a wider debate, with complaints around allegedly objectionable lyrics and visuals, an FIR being filed, and even intervention from the Haryana State Commission for Women. The video was eventually taken down, and Badshah issued a public apology, but the conversation didn’t really end there.

Before that, it was Yo Yo Honey Singh facing backlash for a moment during a live show. And if you’ve been around long enough, you know this isn’t new. The names change, the context shifts slightly, but the structure remains almost identical.

There’s outrage, there’s defence, and then there’s a phase where everyone tries to explain why they’re right. And once the noise settles, we move on, without really resolving anything.

But if you step back from the noise for a second, it starts to feel like the issue isn’t just about what was said or shown. It’s about how we collectively respond to it—and more importantly, how we avoid taking responsibility.

The Comfort of the Same Arguments

Whenever something like this happens, the same two arguments show up almost immediately.

The first is that hip-hop is always being targeted. And to be fair, there’s truth to that. Hip-hop has always existed slightly outside the comfort zone of mainstream culture. It’s more direct, less filtered, and often doesn’t try to soften its edges. In a country like India, where cultural expectations are still evolving, that naturally makes it easier to criticise.

But over time, this argument has also become a default reaction. It’s often used not to engage with criticism, but to dismiss it entirely. As if every critique automatically comes from a place of bias, and therefore doesn’t need to be taken seriously. The problem with that approach is that it shuts down any meaningful conversation before it even begins. Not every reaction is unfair, and not every question is an attack on the culture.

On the other side, you have the argument that artists need to be more responsible. That they should be aware of their influence and the kind of impact their work can have, especially when it reaches a wide audience. Again, there’s truth here too. When a song reaches millions of people, especially younger listeners, it inevitably carries a certain weight.

But this argument also becomes limiting when it starts expecting art to exist within fixed boundaries. Hip-hop, whether globally or in India, has never been about playing it safe. It has always been a space for expression that isn’t necessarily clean, comfortable, or universally agreeable.

Both sides, in isolation, make sense. But neither of them fully captures what’s actually happening.

What We’re NOT Talking About

What’s interesting is not just the disagreement, but what happens within that disagreement.

Because somewhere in the middle of all this, responsibility quietly gets passed around.

Artists often fall back on the idea that what they create is “just art,” something that shouldn’t be taken too literally. But at the same time, the same art is expected to influence culture, shape conversations, and build a lasting legacy. It’s difficult to claim that level of impact while also stepping away from accountability when something doesn’t land the way it was intended.

At the same time, the audience isn’t as passive as it often believes. A lot of what becomes controversial only does so because it is amplified. Clips are shared, reposted, and pushed into wider conversations before they are even fully understood. There is a kind of selective engagement that happens, where people participate in spreading something and then distance themselves from it once the backlash begins.

The industry and the platforms that host all of this operate in a similar way. Controversy brings attention, and attention translates into engagement. But when that engagement turns into criticism, there is very little ownership from the systems that benefited from it in the first place. Everything becomes neutral again.

Even within media and content spaces, including those of us who are documenting and analysing this culture, there’s something to reflect on. The line between observing a moment and amplifying it is thinner than it seems. Sometimes, in trying to break something down or add perspective, we also end up feeding into the same cycle of noise.

This also isn’t just a hip-hop problem. If anything, it’s much bigger than the genre itself. For decades, mainstream Bollywood has normalised certain behaviours under the guise of romance—relentless pursuit, ignoring rejection, and the idea that persistence will eventually be rewarded. There has even been a case in Australia where a man accused of stalking argued in court that he had grown up watching Bollywood films and believed that kind of behaviour was normal, and the court took his cultural background into account. It’s an extreme example, but it shows how deeply media can shape perception.

Which makes it harder to reduce these conversations to just one artist or one song. Because the culture we’re reacting to didn’t start here—and it doesn’t exist in isolation.

At a broader level, this isn’t just about one song or one artist. It’s about a cultural gap that still exists.

There still isn’t a shared understanding of where expression ends and responsibility begins. Different people draw that line in different places, and until there’s more clarity around that, these moments will continue to play out in the same way.

Each controversy feels like a fresh debate, but in reality, it’s the same conversation restarting every time.

Looking at the Bigger Picture

Maybe the issue isn’t that people are taking sides. That’s natural. The problem is that each side often treats its own perspective as complete, without recognising what it might be missing.

It’s possible to acknowledge that hip-hop is sometimes unfairly targeted, while also accepting that artists operate within a larger cultural context that carries responsibility. It’s also possible to recognise the role audiences and platforms play, instead of treating them as passive observers.

Because culture isn’t shaped by one person alone. It’s built collectively, through the choices, reactions, and behaviours of everyone involved.

Instead of asking whether something is right or wrong, maybe the more useful question is this:

Who is willing to take responsibility for the culture we are actively shaping?

Until that question is answered with some level of honesty, it’s hard to see this cycle changing. The names might be different next time, the moment might look new, but the conversation will remain exactly where it is.

And that, more than any single controversy, is what’s actually worth paying attention to.

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